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    Come On, Woman!

    Talking about self victimization today and realizing how all of my examples (or my real life experiences with such victimization) are connected only with women. Yes, i mean women and women alone. There is not a single instance I can recall at the moment where a man played the role of a victim. The reasons could be many. Firstly, men rarely if ever are so emotional if they talk and secondly, it could be unmanly to be the victim. So I am not assuming directly that being a victim is a womanly thing to do. However, it is quite possible that the roots of such victimization are deep in our…

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    Glorifying Victimization

    okay so, now i have come with something that i really wanted not to write about for long.┬áVictimization appears very nice. I mean wherever i go, i find people who talk about people who have been through a lot in their life, been there even when they were forced to eat the dust in relationships and jobs. They are talked about because they went through all this without opening their mouths, without protesting, without complaining. Not that being a rebel in every situation is good or endlessly complaining sounds too good to me, but yes, glory comes to those who ‘suffer’. why do good people never speak up? why are…